Sunday, February 1, 2009

My 'crowing' forefathers


Every morning my mom places a cup of cooked rice on the parapet wall on the terrace as an offering to the crows. She doesn't usually care if my dad is getting late for work or that I am really hungry. Until she finishes this ritual none of us get a morsel. She is so regular that the crows are hovering around the building around that time. It wouldn't be an exaggeration if I say that my mom has stopped looking at the clock in the morning. The crows tell her the time. 

According to my mother crows are our hungry forefathers and we should be feeding them to keep them satisfied. She has never been able to answer my supplementary questions like all our politicians. If crows are our forefathers how come they eat non-vegetarian food after death? Aren't they being disloyal to the norms they set? But why crows, why didn't they take birth as some other bird or animal?

The scientific explanation given till now has been that we are helping in the propagation of a scavenging species, a la crow. And the only way of making the God-fearing people adhere to the ritual was by concocting the story about crows being our forefathers. 

I am still looking for explanations. Help anyone....

Disclaimer: I am not trying to mock any ritual but only trying to understand it.


4 comments:

  1. I am as clueless as you are!

    My mother 'ritually' gives food to birds/animals (cows in particular) but she has no special affinity for the crows! The first 'roti' from the kitchen everyday goes to the cows or birds! That is written in stone in my home!

    In fact we warded off crows as suggested by her (because "it is an omen").

    I have pigeons drinking water from the bucket in the balcony of my room and I love them!

    Sometimes, nothing amuses more than religious beliefs and superstitions! I liked the 'scientific explanation' though!

    May your "crowing forefathers" rest in peace!

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  2. My suggestion would be even if you dont believe let believers believe, do not belittle them - this is a harmless practice anyway. There are more serious customs & practices to disprove and dismantle in society! If you guys are hungry you can help yourself, which I am sure you do ! Allow her her peace for 5 minutes in the morning and she toils for you for the rest of the day!

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  3. I totally agree to Mr. R.Ramakrishnan. Moreover, it's not just a harmless practice but also gives a lot of other thoughts to younger generation to ponder upon. For ex. sharing your things, being selfless and caring about others even before your own self(especially about speechless species), and many other things. In our house as well, it has been a routine activity to keep a chapati or two separate from every meal for a cow or a dog. Although, our elder generation might have many superstitious reasons behind them, but I am sure in some ways or the other (only if we think about them open-mindedly & even scientifically) they teach us the very basic laws of NATURE & MANKIND (which alas, today's scientific education is not so good at teaching)

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  4. @Ramakrishnan - sorry about the really delayed response, I have been out of touch. I definitely dont mean to belittle, disprove or dismantle the practice by my post. I was only wondering about the reason it was started in the first place. As the upanishad's suggest I want to question the things that go around me to understand them better and see if I want to believe them.

    @Ashish - I agree with your analysis of it. I was only wondering about why crows, why the link with the forefathers?

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